Choosing your own (life)style is one of the boldest things you can do for yourself. For years, I thought that personal style was something you had to “find” out there, like a hidden treasure. But the truth? It’s already within you, you just need the courage to choose it every day.
Chasing trends is choosing someone else’s style
Like so many of us, I spent years trying to blend in, chasing trends and meeting others’ expectations. I thought that if I looked the part, I’d finally feel complete. But all the while, I was drifting further from myself.
Trends can spark inspiration and help us explore, but they’re not meant to be copied blindly. Experiment, try new things, and notice the colours, fabrics, and cuts you always reach for—they’re often the ones that resonate most with you.
Find the courage to be disliked
I started Ode2Style to help women embrace their own unique style with confidence. And one thing I’ve learned is that owning your personal style means having the courage to own your lifestyle.
Not everyone will understand or like the choices you make, and that’s okay. True confidence comes from respecting your own path—and respecting others’ paths in return.
Your style begins and ends with You
Only you can decide when it’s time to stop waiting for approval and start listening to that inner voice. Embrace your unique style today—no grand gesture required, just small, authentic choices every day.
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Choosing your own style is an act of courage and confidence.
